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HER
The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people
As of 30 August 2026, HER has a free plan and paid plans start at $14.99/month. HER is a dating and social app designed specifically for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people. Softwr lists it under Dating. HER is launched in 2013, available on iOS, Android.
Overview
What HER does
HER is a dating and social app designed specifically for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people. Beyond dating, HER offers community features including events, groups, and a social feed. The app creates a safe space for LGBTQ+ women to connect and build relationships.
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Where it falls short
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- Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
- No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
- Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
- Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
- Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid
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Pricing
What HER costs
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Free
Free
- Liking and matching
- Messaging
- Communities
- Events viewing
Premium
$14.99 /mo
- Ad-free experience
- See who is online in real-time
- Additional search filters
- Incognito mode
Capabilities
Features
Profile Matching
Communities
Events
Feed
Filter by Sexuality
Video Chat
Instagram
Integration with Instagram
Spotify
Integration with Spotify
Ios support
Available on ios
Android support
Available on android
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Questions people ask
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Are all HER features free to use?
Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.
SourceWhat communities does HER offer?
HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.
SourceWhat platforms does HER support?
HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).
SourceBehind it
Who makes HER
- Company
- HER
- Based in
- San Francisco, California
- Founders
- Robyn Exton
Timeline
HER over time
- Launch2015-01-01
HER launched globally with expanded features and visibility
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