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HER

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

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Overview

What HER does

HER is a dating and social app designed specifically for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people. Beyond dating, HER offers community features including events, groups, and a social feed. The app creates a safe space for LGBTQ+ women to connect and build relationships.

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Where it falls short

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  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

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What people choose instead of HER

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Pricing

What HER costs

Taken from the vendor's own pricing page. Prices move, so check before you buy.

Free

Free

  • Liking and matching
  • Messaging
  • Communities
  • Events viewing

Premium

$14.99 /mo

  • Ad-free experience
  • See who is online in real-time
  • Additional search filters
  • Incognito mode

Capabilities

Features

  • Profile Matching

    Profile Matching capability

  • Communities

    Communities capability

  • Events

    Events capability

  • Feed

    Feed capability

  • Filter by Sexuality

    Filter by Sexuality capability

  • Video Chat

    Video Chat capability

  • Instagram

    Integration with Instagram

  • Spotify

    Integration with Spotify

  • Ios support

    Available on ios

  • Android support

    Available on android

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Questions people ask

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Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

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What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

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What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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Behind it

Who makes HER

Company
HER
Based in
San Francisco, California
Founders
Robyn Exton

Timeline

HER over time

  1. Launch2015-01-01

    HER launched globally with expanded features and visibility

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