Dating & Social · head to head
HER vs Lox Club
Lox Club
Dating & Social
A members-only dating app for Jews with ridiculously high standards
- From
- $36/month
- Rated
- -
The short version
- Only HER has a free tier, so it costs nothing to try first.
- Each has a real cost: HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns; Lox Club every application is hand-reviewed and access depends on being accepted
- They diverge on capability: HER covers Profile Matching, Lox Club covers Application-Based Entry.
Where they differ
Only the attributes on which HER and Lox Club actually diverge.
Identical on both: platforms (iOS, Android), user rating (Not yet rated), category (Dating & Social).
What each one covers
Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.
Only in HER
- Profile Matching
- Communities
- Events
- Feed
- Filter by Sexuality
- Video Chat
- Spotify
Only in Lox Club
- Application-Based Entry
- Personality Prompts
- Curated Matches
- Jewish-Focused Community
- Witty Profiles
- Virtual Events
Both cover
- Ios support
- Android support
What people use each for
The jobs each tool is most often brought in to do.
HER
No use cases recorded yet. See the HER review.
Lox Club
- Membership-based Jewish dating with a vetted communitynot HER
- Attending curated in-person member eventsnot HER
- Getting profile input from in-house matchmakersnot HER
Where each one falls short
Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.
HER
- Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
- No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
- Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
- Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
- Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid
Lox Club
- Every application is hand-reviewed and access depends on being accepted
- Membership is sold only as 3, 6 or 12 month subscriptions, with no monthly option
- Subscriptions renew automatically unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period
- The iOS app requires iOS 16.4 or later
Pricing, plan by plan
HER
Free- FreeFree
- Liking and matching
- Messaging
- Communities
- Premium$14.99/month
- Ad-free experience
- See who is online in real-time
- Additional search filters
Lox Club
$36/month- Monthly$36/month
- Full Access
- Matching
- Messaging
- 3 Months$25/month
- Full Access
- Matching
- Messaging
Which should you pick?
Choose HER if
- You need profile matching.
- You want to start without paying.
- You work on iOS, Android.
- You also want communities.
Choose Lox Club if
- You need application-based entry.
- You work on Ios, Android.
- You also want personality prompts.
Questions people ask
- Is HER or Lox Club better?
- Neither clearly leads. HER starts at Free and Lox Club at $36/month, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
- Which is cheaper, HER or Lox Club?
- HER has a free tier; the other does not. Paid plans start at Free for HER and $36/month for Lox Club.
- Does HER or Lox Club run on more platforms?
- HER runs on iOS, Android. Lox Club runs on Ios, Android.
- Can I use HER for free?
- Yes. HER has a free tier, so you can try it without paying. Lox Club starts at $36/month.
- What can HER do that Lox Club cannot?
- HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. Lox Club covers Application-Based Entry, Personality Prompts, Curated Matches, Jewish-Focused Community. Both handle Instagram, Ios support, Android support.
Answered from the vendors’ own pages
HER: Are all HER features free to use?
Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.
SourceHER: What communities does HER offer?
HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.
SourceHER: What platforms does HER support?
HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).
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