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HER vs Lox Club

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HER

Dating

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite
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Lox Club

Dating

A members-only dating app for Jews with ridiculously high standards

From
$36/month
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite

The short version

  • Only HER has a free tier, so it costs nothing to try first.
  • Each has a real cost: HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns; Lox Club every application is hand-reviewed and access depends on being accepted
  • They diverge on capability: HER covers Profile Matching, Lox Club covers Application-Based Entry.
  • Prices and features above were last checked on 30 August 2026.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which HER and Lox Club actually diverge.

Attributes where HER and Lox Club differ
AttributeHERLox Club
Starting priceFree$36/month
Pricing modelUnknownsubscription
Free tierYesNo
Founded20132020

Identical on both: platforms (iOS, Android), user rating (Not yet rated), category (Dating).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in HER

  • Profile Matching
  • Communities
  • Events
  • Feed
  • Filter by Sexuality
  • Video Chat
  • Spotify

Only in Lox Club

  • Application-Based Entry
  • Personality Prompts
  • Curated Matches
  • Jewish-Focused Community
  • Witty Profiles
  • Virtual Events

Both cover

  • Instagram
  • Ios support
  • Android support

What people use each for

The jobs each tool is most often brought in to do.

HER

No use cases recorded yet. See the HER review.

Lox Club

  • Membership-based Jewish dating with a vetted communitynot HER
  • Attending curated in-person member eventsnot HER
  • Getting profile input from in-house matchmakersnot HER

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

HER

  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

Lox Club

  • Every application is hand-reviewed and access depends on being accepted
  • Membership is sold only as 3, 6 or 12 month subscriptions, with no monthly option
  • Subscriptions renew automatically unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period
  • The iOS app requires iOS 16.4 or later

Pricing, plan by plan

HER

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Liking and matching
    • Messaging
    • Communities
  • Premium$14.99/month
    • Ad-free experience
    • See who is online in real-time
    • Additional search filters

Lox Club

$36/month
  • Monthly$36/month
    • Full Access
    • Matching
    • Messaging
  • 3 Months$25/month
    • Full Access
    • Matching
    • Messaging

Which should you pick?

Choose HER if

  • You need profile matching.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want communities.
HER review

Choose Lox Club if

  • You need application-based entry.
  • You work on Ios, Android.
  • You also want personality prompts.
Lox Club review

Questions people ask

Is HER or Lox Club better?
Neither clearly leads. HER starts at Free and Lox Club at $36/month, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, HER or Lox Club?
HER has a free tier; the other does not. Paid plans start at Free for HER and $36/month for Lox Club.
Does HER or Lox Club run on more platforms?
HER runs on iOS, Android. Lox Club runs on Ios, Android.
Can I use HER for free?
Yes. HER has a free tier, so you can try it without paying. Lox Club starts at $36/month.
What can HER do that Lox Club cannot?
HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. Lox Club covers Application-Based Entry, Personality Prompts, Curated Matches, Jewish-Focused Community. Both handle Instagram, Ios support, Android support.

Answered from the vendors’ own pages

HER: Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

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HER: What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

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HER: What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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