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Feeld vs HER

Feeld logo

Feeld

Software

Dating for the open-minded

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite
HER logo

HER

Software

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite

The short version

  • Each has a real cost: Feeld technical bugs and glitches including messages failing to send, profiles not loading, and app crashes; HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • They diverge on capability: Feeld covers Couple Profiles, HER covers Profile Matching.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which Feeld and HER actually diverge.

Attributes where Feeld and HER differ
AttributeFeeldHER
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Identical on both: starting price (Free), pricing model (Unknown), free tier (Yes), platforms (iOS, Android), user rating (Not yet rated), category (Unknown).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in Feeld

  • Couple Profiles
  • 20+ Sexualities
  • 20+ Gender Identities
  • Incognito Mode
  • Group Chat
  • Desires Tags
  • Web support

Only in HER

  • Profile Matching
  • Communities
  • Events
  • Feed
  • Filter by Sexuality
  • Video Chat
  • Instagram
  • Spotify

Both cover

  • Ios support
  • Android support

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

Feeld

  • Technical bugs and glitches including messages failing to send, profiles not loading, and app crashes
  • Automatic account blocking on any user report without human review upfront, leading to false positives
  • Normie creep diluting the community as mainstream daters join, watering down the curated pool of genuinely open-minded users
  • Smaller user base in rural and non-urban areas limiting options outside major cities
  • User behavior issues including unicorn hunting by couples and transactional approaches that disrespect authentic connection

HER

  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

Pricing, plan by plan

Feeld

Free

No published plan breakdown. See the Feeld review.

HER

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Liking and matching
    • Messaging
    • Communities
  • Premium$14.99/month
    • Ad-free experience
    • See who is online in real-time
    • Additional search filters

Which should you pick?

Choose Feeld if

  • You need couple profiles.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want 20+ sexualities.
Feeld review

Choose HER if

  • You need profile matching.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want communities.
HER review

Questions people ask

Is Feeld or HER better?
Neither clearly leads. Feeld starts at Free and HER at Free, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, Feeld or HER?
Feeld starts at Free and HER at Free.
Does Feeld or HER run on more platforms?
Both run on iOS, Android, so platform support will not decide this one for you.
Can I use Feeld for free?
Both have a free tier, so you can try either at no cost before committing.
What can Feeld do that HER cannot?
Feeld covers Couple Profiles, 20+ Sexualities, 20+ Gender Identities, Incognito Mode. HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. Both handle Ios support, Android support.

Answered from the vendors’ own pages

Feeld: What is Feeld's pricing?

Feeld's Majestic tier (single paid plan) costs $11.99/month or $23.99 for three months ($8/month). Regional and device pricing variations exist, with Premium Plus ($34.99/month single or roughly $17/month annually) adding priority likes and advanced features.

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HER: Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

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Feeld: How does Feeld's Constellation feature work?

Constellation allows couples to link their accounts into a shared profile introduced in 2024. Both partners see incoming likes and browse profiles together, making it useful for couples exploring non-traditional relationships.

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HER: What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

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Feeld: How many gender identities and orientations does Feeld support?

Feeld supports 20+ gender identities and 20+ sexual orientations. Profiles can list relationship structures including open, poly, partnered-and-curious, and solo.

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HER: What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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Feeld: What features are available in the free tier?

Free tier includes basic profile creation, limited profile browsing, and restricted messaging capabilities. Majestic premium adds the ability to see who liked you and advanced filters.

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Feeld: How many active users does Feeld have?

Feeld has grown to 2M+ active users and consistently ranks in the Google Play top 10 in its dating app category.

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