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HER vs Christian Mingle

HER logo

HER

Software

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

From
Free
Rated
-
Christian Mingle logo

Christian Mingle

Software

Find God's match for you

From
$24.99/month
Rated
-

The short version

  • Only HER has a free tier, so it costs nothing to try first.
  • Each has a real cost: HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns; Christian Mingle spark Networks states it does not conduct background checks on members or subscribers of Christian Mingle
  • They diverge on capability: HER covers Profile Matching, Christian Mingle covers Faith-Based Profiles.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which HER and Christian Mingle actually diverge.

Attributes where HER and Christian Mingle differ
AttributeHERChristian Mingle
Starting priceFree$24.99/month
Pricing modelUnknownsubscription
Free tierYesNo
PlatformsiOS, AndroidIos, Android, Web
Founded20132001

Identical on both: user rating (Not yet rated), category (Unknown).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in HER

  • Profile Matching
  • Communities
  • Events
  • Feed
  • Filter by Sexuality
  • Video Chat
  • Instagram
  • Spotify

Only in Christian Mingle

  • Faith-Based Profiles
  • LookBook
  • Advanced Search
  • Read Receipts
  • Profile Boost
  • Daily Matches
  • Web support

Both cover

  • Ios support
  • Android support

What people use each for

The jobs each tool is most often brought in to do.

HER

No use cases recorded yet. See the HER review.

Christian Mingle

  • Meeting other Christian singles who share a faith outlooknot HER
  • Searching for local faith-focused singlesnot HER
  • Messaging matches with dating intent rather than casual swipingnot HER

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

HER

  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

Christian Mingle

  • Spark Networks states it does not conduct background checks on members or subscribers of Christian Mingle
  • The iOS app requires iOS 17.0 or later

Pricing, plan by plan

HER

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Liking and matching
    • Messaging
    • Communities
  • Premium$14.99/month
    • Ad-free experience
    • See who is online in real-time
    • Additional search filters

Christian Mingle

$24.99/month
  • Premium$24.99/month
    • Unlimited Messaging
    • See Who Liked You
    • Advanced Search

Which should you pick?

Choose HER if

  • You need profile matching.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want communities.

Choose Christian Mingle if

  • You need faith-based profiles.
  • You work on Ios, Android, Web.
  • You also want lookbook.

Questions people ask

Is HER or Christian Mingle better?
Neither clearly leads. HER starts at Free and Christian Mingle at $24.99/month, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, HER or Christian Mingle?
HER has a free tier; the other does not. Paid plans start at Free for HER and $24.99/month for Christian Mingle.
Does HER or Christian Mingle run on more platforms?
HER runs on iOS, Android. Christian Mingle runs on Ios, Android, Web.
Can I use HER for free?
Yes. HER has a free tier, so you can try it without paying. Christian Mingle starts at $24.99/month.
What can HER do that Christian Mingle cannot?
HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. Christian Mingle covers Faith-Based Profiles, LookBook, Advanced Search, Read Receipts. Both handle Ios support, Android support.

Answered from the vendors’ own pages

HER: Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

Source
HER: What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

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HER: What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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