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HER vs Match.com

HER logo

HER

Dating

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite
Match.com logo

Match.com

Dating

Start something real

From
$35.99/month
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite

The short version

  • Only HER has a free tier, so it costs nothing to try first.
  • Each has a real cost: HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns; Match.com without a subscription you can only chat with recommended matches rather than anyone you find
  • They diverge on capability: HER covers Profile Matching, Match.com covers Advanced Search.
  • Prices and features above were last checked on 30 August 2026.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which HER and Match.com actually diverge.

Attributes where HER and Match.com differ
AttributeHERMatch.com
Starting priceFree$35.99/month
Pricing modelUnknownsubscription
Free tierYesNo
PlatformsiOS, AndroidIos, Android, Web
Founded20131993

Identical on both: user rating (Not yet rated), category (Dating).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in HER

  • Profile Matching
  • Communities
  • Feed
  • Filter by Sexuality
  • Video Chat
  • Instagram
  • Spotify

Only in Match.com

  • Advanced Search
  • Daily Matches
  • Messaging
  • Profile Verification
  • Dating Advice
  • Web support

Both cover

  • Events
  • Ios support
  • Android support

What people use each for

The jobs each tool is most often brought in to do.

HER

No use cases recorded yet. See the HER review.

Match.com

  • Finding long-term relationship matches with detailed search criterianot HER
  • Attending online and in-person singles eventsnot HER
  • Getting profile and first-date coaching from Match dating expertsnot HER

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

HER

  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

Match.com

  • Without a subscription you can only chat with recommended matches rather than anyone you find
  • Seeing unlimited profiles requires the Premium subscription
  • Advanced search filters are Premium only
  • Reconnecting with profiles you already passed on requires Premium
  • Profile boosts to be seen faster are Premium only
  • The iOS app requires iOS 16.0 or later

Pricing, plan by plan

HER

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Liking and matching
    • Messaging
    • Communities
  • Premium$14.99/month
    • Ad-free experience
    • See who is online in real-time
    • Additional search filters

Match.com

$35.99/month
  • Standard$35.99/month
    • Messaging
    • See Who Viewed You
    • Search Filters
  • Premium$44.99/month
    • All Standard Features
    • Read Receipts
    • Profile Boost

Which should you pick?

Choose HER if

  • You need profile matching.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want communities.
HER review

Choose Match.com if

  • You need advanced search.
  • You work on Ios, Android, Web.
  • You also want daily matches.
Match.com review

Questions people ask

Is HER or Match.com better?
Neither clearly leads. HER starts at Free and Match.com at $35.99/month, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, HER or Match.com?
HER has a free tier; the other does not. Paid plans start at Free for HER and $35.99/month for Match.com.
Does HER or Match.com run on more platforms?
HER runs on iOS, Android. Match.com runs on Ios, Android, Web.
Can I use HER for free?
Yes. HER has a free tier, so you can try it without paying. Match.com starts at $35.99/month.
What can HER do that Match.com cannot?
HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Feed, Filter by Sexuality. Match.com covers Advanced Search, Daily Matches, Messaging, Profile Verification. Both handle Events, Ios support, Android support.

Answered from the vendors’ own pages

HER: Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

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Match.com: How much does Match.com cost?

Match.com pricing is not publicly accessible. Access to pricing details requires visiting the Match.com website directly or contacting their support team.

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HER: What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

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Match.com: Does Match.com offer free membership?

Match.com membership options and pricing are not disclosed on their public pages. Visit Match.com directly to review available membership tiers.

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HER: What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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