Dating & Social · head to head
HER vs EliteSingles
EliteSingles
Dating & Social
Intelligent matchmaking for educated singles
- From
- $31.95/month
- Rated
- -
The short version
- Only HER has a free tier, so it costs nothing to try first.
- They diverge on capability: HER covers Profile Matching, EliteSingles covers Personality Assessment.
Where they differ
Only the attributes on which HER and EliteSingles actually diverge.
| Attribute | HER | EliteSingles |
|---|---|---|
| Starting price | Free | $31.95/month |
| Pricing model | Unknown | subscription |
| Free tier | Yes | No |
| Platforms | iOS, Android | Ios, Android, Web |
| Founded | 2013 | 2008 |
Identical on both: user rating (Not yet rated), category (Dating & Social).
What each one covers
Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.
Only in HER
- Profile Matching
- Communities
- Events
- Feed
- Filter by Sexuality
- Video Chat
- Spotify
Only in EliteSingles
- Personality Assessment
- Smart Matching
- Daily Matches
- Profile Verification
- Have You Met
- Wildcard Matches
- Web support
Both cover
- Ios support
- Android support
Where each one falls short
Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.
HER
- Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
- No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
- Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
- Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
- Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid
EliteSingles
Nothing recorded yet. See the EliteSingles review.
Pricing, plan by plan
HER
Free- FreeFree
- Liking and matching
- Messaging
- Communities
- Premium$14.99/month
- Ad-free experience
- See who is online in real-time
- Additional search filters
EliteSingles
$31.95/month- Premium Light$44.95/month
- Unlimited Messaging
- See All Photos
- View Visitors
- Premium Classic$31.95/month
- All Light Features
- Read Receipts
Which should you pick?
Choose HER if
- You need profile matching.
- You want to start without paying.
- You work on iOS, Android.
- You also want communities.
Choose EliteSingles if
- You need personality assessment.
- You work on Ios, Android, Web.
- You also want smart matching.
Questions people ask
- Is HER or EliteSingles better?
- Neither clearly leads. HER starts at Free and EliteSingles at $31.95/month, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
- Which is cheaper, HER or EliteSingles?
- HER has a free tier; the other does not. Paid plans start at Free for HER and $31.95/month for EliteSingles.
- Does HER or EliteSingles run on more platforms?
- HER runs on iOS, Android. EliteSingles runs on Ios, Android, Web.
- Can I use HER for free?
- Yes. HER has a free tier, so you can try it without paying. EliteSingles starts at $31.95/month.
- What can HER do that EliteSingles cannot?
- HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. EliteSingles covers Personality Assessment, Smart Matching, Daily Matches, Profile Verification. Both handle Ios support, Android support.
Answered from the vendors’ own pages
HER: Are all HER features free to use?
Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.
SourceHER: What communities does HER offer?
HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.
SourceHER: What platforms does HER support?
HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).
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