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The League vs HER

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The League

Software

Date intelligently

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite
HER logo

HER

Software

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite

The short version

  • Each has a real cost: The League very small user pool compared to mainstream dating apps, with long waitlists especially in smaller cities; HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • They diverge on capability: The League covers Vetted Profiles, HER covers Profile Matching.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which The League and HER actually diverge.

Attributes where The League and HER differ
AttributeThe LeagueHER
Founded20142013

Identical on both: starting price (Free), pricing model (Unknown), free tier (Yes), platforms (iOS, Android), user rating (Not yet rated), category (Unknown).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in The League

  • Vetted Profiles
  • LinkedIn Verification
  • League Live
  • Concierge Service
  • Power Moves
  • Stats Dashboard
  • LinkedIn
  • Facebook

Only in HER

  • Profile Matching
  • Communities
  • Events
  • Feed
  • Filter by Sexuality
  • Video Chat
  • Instagram
  • Spotify

Both cover

  • Ios support
  • Android support

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

The League

  • Very small user pool compared to mainstream dating apps, with long waitlists especially in smaller cities
  • Extremely high pricing with membership starting at $99.99 per week
  • Limited daily matches for free users and lower tiers creates slow progression
  • Geographic matching issues with users reporting matches outside their selected area
  • Algorithm heavily favors daily login and engagement, penalizing inactive users
  • Inactive free users removed after 30 days inactivity

HER

  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

Pricing, plan by plan

The League

Free

No published plan breakdown. See the The League review.

HER

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Liking and matching
    • Messaging
    • Communities
  • Premium$14.99/month
    • Ad-free experience
    • See who is online in real-time
    • Additional search filters

Which should you pick?

Choose The League if

  • You need vetted profiles.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want linkedin verification.
The League review

Choose HER if

  • You need profile matching.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want communities.
HER review

Questions people ask

Is The League or HER better?
Neither clearly leads. The League starts at Free and HER at Free, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, The League or HER?
The League starts at Free and HER at Free.
Does The League or HER run on more platforms?
Both run on iOS, Android, so platform support will not decide this one for you.
Can I use The League for free?
Both have a free tier, so you can try either at no cost before committing.
What can The League do that HER cannot?
The League covers Vetted Profiles, LinkedIn Verification, League Live, Concierge Service. HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. Both handle Ios support, Android support.

Answered from the vendors’ own pages

The League: What is The League's membership application process?

The League is invite-only with a waitlist system. Users must apply and be manually verified to ensure a safe, authentic community of educated professionals.

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HER: Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

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The League: How many daily matches does The League provide?

Free users receive 3 daily matches, while membership tier determines the number of daily prospects shown, with premium tiers offering 8 matches daily.

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HER: What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

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The League: What are The League's pricing tiers?

Membership costs range from $99.99 to $999.99 per week depending on tier, with four distinct membership levels offering different features and match visibility.

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HER: What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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