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BeReal vs HER

BeReal logo

BeReal

Software

Your friends for real

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite
HER logo

HER

Software

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite

The short version

  • Each has a real cost: BeReal app is free to download with no paid tier disclosed in its App Store listing; HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • They diverge on capability: BeReal covers Daily Photo Prompt, HER covers Profile Matching.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which BeReal and HER actually diverge.

Attributes where BeReal and HER differ
AttributeBeRealHER
Pricing modelfreeUnknown
Founded20202013

Identical on both: starting price (Free), free tier (Yes), platforms (Ios, Android), user rating (Not yet rated), category (Unknown).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in BeReal

  • Daily Photo Prompt
  • Dual Camera Capture
  • RealMojis
  • Discovery Tab
  • Memories
  • Late Posts Tracking

Only in HER

  • Profile Matching
  • Communities
  • Events
  • Feed
  • Filter by Sexuality
  • Video Chat
  • Instagram
  • Spotify

Both cover

  • Ios support
  • Android support

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

BeReal

  • App is free to download with no paid tier disclosed in its App Store listing

HER

  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

Pricing, plan by plan

BeReal

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Daily BeReal
    • RealMojis
    • Friends Feed

HER

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Liking and matching
    • Messaging
    • Communities
  • Premium$14.99/month
    • Ad-free experience
    • See who is online in real-time
    • Additional search filters

Which should you pick?

Choose BeReal if

  • You need daily photo prompt.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on Ios, Android.
  • You also want dual camera capture.
BeReal review

Choose HER if

  • You need profile matching.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want communities.
HER review

Questions people ask

Is BeReal or HER better?
Neither clearly leads. BeReal starts at Free and HER at Free, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, BeReal or HER?
BeReal starts at Free and HER at Free.
Does BeReal or HER run on more platforms?
BeReal runs on Ios, Android. HER runs on iOS, Android.
Can I use BeReal for free?
Both have a free tier, so you can try either at no cost before committing.
What can BeReal do that HER cannot?
BeReal covers Daily Photo Prompt, Dual Camera Capture, RealMojis, Discovery Tab. HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. Both handle Ios support, Android support.

Answered from the vendors’ own pages

HER: Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

Source
HER: What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

Source
HER: What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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