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HER vs BeReal

HER logo

HER

Software

The dating app for LGBTQ+ women and queer people

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite
BeReal logo

BeReal

Software

Your friends for real

From
Free
Rated
-
Full reviewWebsite

The short version

  • Each has a real cost: HER facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns; BeReal app is free to download with no paid tier disclosed in its App Store listing
  • They diverge on capability: HER covers Profile Matching, BeReal covers Daily Photo Prompt.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which HER and BeReal actually diverge.

Attributes where HER and BeReal differ
AttributeHERBeReal
Pricing modelUnknownfree
Founded20132020

Identical on both: starting price (Free), free tier (Yes), platforms (iOS, Android), user rating (Not yet rated), category (Unknown).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in HER

  • Profile Matching
  • Communities
  • Events
  • Feed
  • Filter by Sexuality
  • Video Chat
  • Instagram
  • Spotify

Only in BeReal

  • Daily Photo Prompt
  • Dual Camera Capture
  • RealMojis
  • Discovery Tab
  • Memories
  • Late Posts Tracking

Both cover

  • Ios support
  • Android support

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

HER

  • Facebook or Instagram account required for signup, which excludes closeted users or those with safety concerns
  • No web version available; mobile-only platform on iOS and Android
  • Fake profiles and romance scams present on platform despite selfie verification
  • Limited user base outside major cities; geographic areas without Pride events may have single-digit user pools
  • Key features like Discover page and unlimited likes are behind paywall with 14-hour swiping limit unless paid

BeReal

  • App is free to download with no paid tier disclosed in its App Store listing

Pricing, plan by plan

HER

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Liking and matching
    • Messaging
    • Communities
  • Premium$14.99/month
    • Ad-free experience
    • See who is online in real-time
    • Additional search filters

BeReal

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Daily BeReal
    • RealMojis
    • Friends Feed

Which should you pick?

Choose HER if

  • You need profile matching.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on iOS, Android.
  • You also want communities.
HER review

Choose BeReal if

  • You need daily photo prompt.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on Ios, Android.
  • You also want dual camera capture.
BeReal review

Questions people ask

Is HER or BeReal better?
Neither clearly leads. HER starts at Free and BeReal at Free, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, HER or BeReal?
HER starts at Free and BeReal at Free.
Does HER or BeReal run on more platforms?
HER runs on iOS, Android. BeReal runs on Ios, Android.
Can I use HER for free?
Both have a free tier, so you can try either at no cost before committing.
What can HER do that BeReal cannot?
HER covers Profile Matching, Communities, Events, Feed. BeReal covers Daily Photo Prompt, Dual Camera Capture, RealMojis, Discovery Tab. Both handle Ios support, Android support.

Answered from the vendors’ own pages

HER: Are all HER features free to use?

Yes. All core features are completely free including liking, matching, messaging, joining communities, and viewing events. HER Premium ($14.99/month or $7.50/month annually) removes ads and adds filters.

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HER: What communities does HER offer?

HER features 30+ communities for queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming users. Users can add pronouns, pride pins, and gender identities to their profiles.

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HER: What platforms does HER support?

HER is available on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play).

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