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Discord vs Match.com

Discord logo

Discord

Gaming

Your place to talk and hang out

From
Free
Rated
-
Match.com logo

Match.com

Dating & Social

Start something real

From
$35.99/month
Rated
-

The short version

  • Only Discord has a free tier, so it costs nothing to try first.
  • Each has a real cost: Discord file upload size is tied to subscription: Nitro Basic at $2.99 a month raises it to 50MB and Nitro at $9.99 a month to 500MB; Match.com without a subscription you can only chat with recommended matches rather than anyone you find
  • They diverge on capability: Discord covers Voice channels, Match.com covers Advanced Search.

Where they differ

Only the attributes on which Discord and Match.com actually diverge.

Attributes where Discord and Match.com differ
AttributeDiscordMatch.com
Starting priceFree$35.99/month
Pricing modelfreemiumsubscription
Free tierYesNo
PlatformsWeb, Windows, Macos, Linux, Ios, AndroidIos, Android, Web
CategoryGamingDating & Social
Founded20151993

Identical on both: user rating (Not yet rated).

What each one covers

Drawn from each product's published feature list. An absence here means we hold no record of it - not that the product lacks it.

Only in Discord

  • Voice channels
  • Video calls
  • Text channels
  • Screen sharing
  • Go Live streaming
  • Server organization
  • Role management
  • Moderation tools

Only in Match.com

  • Advanced Search
  • Daily Matches
  • Messaging
  • Profile Verification
  • Events
  • Dating Advice
  • Ios support
  • Android support

What people use each for

The jobs each tool is most often brought in to do.

Discord

  • Text, voice and video chat for communities and gaming groupsnot Match.com
  • Running a moderated community server with roles and channelsnot Match.com
  • Screen sharing and streaming gameplay to a small groupnot Match.com

Match.com

  • Finding long-term relationship matches with detailed search criterianot Discord
  • Attending online and in-person singles eventsnot Discord
  • Getting profile and first-date coaching from Match dating expertsnot Discord

Where each one falls short

Documented limitations, not opinions. Every one is a constraint you would hit in normal use.

Discord

  • File upload size is tied to subscription: Nitro Basic at $2.99 a month raises it to 50MB and Nitro at $9.99 a month to 500MB
  • HD video streaming requires the full Nitro subscription
  • Custom emoji use across servers, custom profiles and per server profiles are full Nitro only
  • Server boosts are bundled only with full Nitro, at two boosts plus a discount on extras
  • Nitro Basic explicitly excludes several Nitro perks including Xbox Game Pass access and custom video backgrounds

Match.com

  • Without a subscription you can only chat with recommended matches rather than anyone you find
  • Seeing unlimited profiles requires the Premium subscription
  • Advanced search filters are Premium only
  • Reconnecting with profiles you already passed on requires Premium
  • Profile boosts to be seen faster are Premium only
  • The iOS app requires iOS 16.0 or later

Pricing, plan by plan

Discord

Free
  • FreeFree
    • Unlimited text chat
    • Voice & video calls
    • Screen sharing
  • Nitro Basic$4.99/month
    • 50MB file uploads
    • Custom emojis anywhere
    • Special Nitro badge
  • Nitro$9.99/month
    • 500MB file uploads
    • HD video streaming
    • 2 Server Boosts

Match.com

$35.99/month
  • Standard$35.99/month
    • Messaging
    • See Who Viewed You
    • Search Filters
  • Premium$44.99/month
    • All Standard Features
    • Read Receipts
    • Profile Boost

Which should you pick?

Choose Discord if

  • You need voice channels.
  • You want to start without paying.
  • You work on Web, Windows, Macos, Linux, Ios, Android.
  • You also want video calls.

Choose Match.com if

  • You need advanced search.
  • You work on Ios, Android, Web.
  • You also want daily matches.

Questions people ask

Is Discord or Match.com better?
Neither clearly leads. Discord starts at Free and Match.com at $35.99/month, and user ratings are close enough to be indistinguishable. Choose on capability and platform support.
Which is cheaper, Discord or Match.com?
Discord has a free tier; the other does not. Paid plans start at Free for Discord and $35.99/month for Match.com.
Does Discord or Match.com run on more platforms?
Discord runs on Web, Windows, Macos, Linux, Ios, Android. Match.com runs on Ios, Android, Web.
Can I use Discord for free?
Yes. Discord has a free tier, so you can try it without paying. Match.com starts at $35.99/month.
What is Discord best used for?
Discord is most often used for text, voice and video chat for communities and gaming groups, running a moderated community server with roles and channels, screen sharing and streaming gameplay to a small group. Of those, text, voice and video chat for communities and gaming groups and running a moderated community server with roles and channels are not what Match.com is typically brought in for.
What can Discord do that Match.com cannot?
Discord covers Voice channels, Video calls, Text channels, Screen sharing. Match.com covers Advanced Search, Daily Matches, Messaging, Profile Verification.

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